Welcome to my story. My story is one of an invisible struggle. A struggle that society says “shouldn’t” have been, but was. Everything in my life looked okay on the outside, but my internal reality, created from my internal dialogue, was far from “okay”. I was struggling, feeling chaos and emotional pain which impacted every area of my life. What I know to be true is that this internal dialogue not only impacted my life, but also made me unconsciously seek evidence to prove these false stories true. This, consequently, perpetuated very painful experiences for me. It was not until I became conscious of these internal stories that I was able to ultimately change them. Once I was able to change these internal and unconscious stories, I was free to actually live my life instead of responding to the limiting beliefs and false narratives I had created.
What I Do
“The heart has its reasons whereof reason knows nothing.” –Blaise Pascal
“There is no worse bitterness than to reach the end of your life and realize that you have not lived.” –M. Scott Peck
We all receive programming early on in our lives. Our beliefs about ourselves and the world are put into place as we grow up. We seek experiences to support our belief systems and repeat certain patterns over and over. For many of us, we are operating under belief systems that are no longer true. We don’t realize that our beliefs are self-fulfilling prophecies. The only way to break out of them is to tap into our subconscious and see what we are believing so that we have an opportunity to change them.
The easiest place to see these patterns is in the context of our relationships. Most of us find ourselves repeating the same relationship dynamic over and over again. And we wonder why the second marriage has a higher divorce rate than the first! It is because we repeat the same patterns until we become conscious of them and begin to heal them.
If you find yourself in similar repeating relationship dynamics, you can be sure that you are attracting this yourself. These patterns are based on what you believe about yourself. Most of us live our lives existing in false realities and don’t realize that we have a right to question them.
Let this serve as your invitation. Your invitation to the truth, which exists beneath what you believe to be true. Beneath all of our beliefs is the Truth, and it’s a pathway to a beautiful life.
Work with Me
How many years have you spent not living your life? There is a difference between existing and truly living. One is reactive, while the other is proactive in creating a beautiful life. Which one would you prefer?
Why do you invest in your personal development? What outcome are you desiring and what is it that you truly want? I want peace. I want freedom. I want to be present in my life. I want to feel love. I want to feel like everything is okay. Anything could grow from these intentions. This is why I invest in myself and will forever. This is my life, and I invite you to yours.
Let me ask you this: what might it look like to take one year and commit to doing deep work on yourself, if it changed the rest of your life? There is no quick fix to make deep changes. It is an investment in yourself, not just financially, but also of your time and your energy.
There are a lot of ways to grow and change, but my work is all about connecting. The work I do will create a foundation of attachment for your growth. It will create a foundation grounded in consistent meetings where we both commit to doing this work together.